It strikes me that as a group, we are all getting older, and experiencing various health issues, with some being severe, and some affecting our comfort, and abilities to do the things we want to do. It is so easy to get caught up in our own tribulations, and turn a blind eye to the challenges of others, thinking our problems are worse.
In reality, every one of us is pat of the crew on a very large sailing ship, sharing in the joys and pains of life. And just as with the he crews of sailing vessels, each crew member relies on the other crew members to make sail the ship safely through sometimes calm, and sometimes turbulent waters.
So many of you have been supportive in one way or another to me. I just want everyone to know that your support has meant a great deal to me, and has helped me keep a positive attitude.
I've been reading through the last couple pages of posts, and am filled with concern, and empathy for my fellow DC shipmates. My prayers are being said on your behalf. I truly hope that all goes well for your SO, Andy, and that you fare well in your surgery, with a speedy recovery, Kay. And PriFi, You just get well and strong,
Everyone who is experiencing the unfortunate, but inevitable aging 0f the body, with all that goes with that, I sincerely wish the best for you.
I echo this truth - You are all caring and good people, who give of yourselves to help others. However, to give your best, you mus be at your best. So take a little time to heal. And by all means, put away that superman/supergirl cape, and let others help you. They get joy from giving of themselves too. They care about you.
It took me a great deal of time to learn to let others do things for me. I have always been the guy who wanted to fix everything, for everyone, be it something that needed repair, as in furnace, roof, vehicles, etc., or sprinting a block to gather my daughter into my arms, and carry her home after she went over the handlebars of her bicycle, or helping a friend move a generator under his home, providing the muscle required for the job.
I have been independent, never asking for help for most of my life,always able to figure out how to make things work, for myself, my kids, my DW, and for my friends. Finally, I realized that when I refused to accept help, insisting that I could resolver any issue without having to bother someone else, I was taking away someone else's opportunity to experience the joy only gotten through service to others. My point is, let those who love you help you. It's what strengthens bonds, and ties all of us to each other. So let someone else hoist the mainsail, and man the rudder. The ship will sail fine for a while without you. And when you are strong again, you will be a valued, and valuable shipmate.
Seeeeeeya; Chief Longwind of the North