Back from 2 1/2 weeks vacation in So Florida, Deerfield Beach area north of Ft Lauderdale. Thank you DC friends for maintaining the good life all the 50+ weeks of the year and providing a play ground for us snowbirds. Why yes, I did wear a hawaaiin shirt with my pale skin and bald spot prominently exposed. Did I stick out much. Possibly. Probably not too much. We were 2 blocks from the ocean which was ok w/ me, and not close enough for her even though there was a pool just outside our front door and a gas grill too. We ate out more than usual, and why not, it's vacation. I brought more books than I could read and didn't bring a lap top this year. I should know better. Watching the super bowl and celebrating Valentines day out of town is surreal.
My main concern coming, going and in between was taking care of the kids at home, specifically my oldest cat. Well all of them really. She's approx 16, going pretty blind, unsteady/ off balance and bumps into things. My 75 y/o BIL took care of her and Dx's 10 year old dog. We figured they would all be about the right speed for each other and he was agreeable. These two kids love each other and always have. BIL on the other hand, knows little about kid-care. So the dog ate the cat food, after we had explicitly explained Feed in Separate Rooms. No, the cat does not go out just because he feels she might want to when he feeds the squirrels outside his back door. He said she went in circles on his back steps, At least she didn't make a bee line someplace. The dog is too old to chase squirrels and he said she went around in circles too. But then, she rarely lifts her nose from the snow as she sniffs and creates tracks in the snow. That’s not going in circles, that’s normal. O well. We are home and so are they. What he wants for payment for baby sitting is 14 times cribbage games from each of us, not consecutive days, so there’s about a half year of weekends. A nickel a point. He’s a pretty shrewd player.
My younger, 4 y/o, went to cat-camp, i.e board and care. I couldn’t quite tell how she is-- either mighty happy or she just shook off her tail feathers after getting out of her cat carrier once she landed back in her own living room again. Both girls gave each other a once over sniff smell and lick test and went into separate rooms. I'm so happy the oldest still knows how to raise her tail straight up and walk like a proper lady when she needs to show that she's still got it together. By bed time, they were right back at home on my bed and later curled up on the same pillow on the sofa. I haven't used a board and care facility previous when we have gone out of town, so it was new to me too. Twice daily "snack time" followed by regimented 15 minute cuddles. They also advertised exercise time, or individualized play time. I didn’t request any “specials. I don'no. She probably caught onto the snacks pretty quick but I think she likes to choose her own snuggly times, which is probably when they were busy enforcing someone else’s play time. What I mostly didn’t know, is they are licensed, in a person’s home in a regular neighborhood, for pet care, bedrooms / spaces divided, cutesy but not too cutesy, lots of toys, frequent litter box changes, the house did not smell, and I have done plenty of flea checks, and so far clean as a whistle. I haven’t seen any ear scratching beyond normal, so far. Oh, and I had to provide current shot documents. “El amor en los tiempos del cólera” without the benefit of travel and no passport necessary. They don’t know how easy they have their vacations. New adventures and no waiting in airports.