Kaneohegirlinaz
Wannabe TV Chef
Trying very hard not to lose my
DH has been in a horrible mood for days now, and I understand, he's in alot of pain from his back, but ... being mean and snapping at at every word I say ... I stopped talking this evening as to not blow up at him and use every cuss word in the book.
Like I haven't a bad YEAR already, but I don't take it out on anyone else, especially my husband.
Just a few moments ago I said to him, "why am I making you so angry?"
He replied with the most lame answer about I have been picking on him (it's the other way around there buddy) "okay then I will make a conscious effort not to do that any more, but please, I've been on the verge of tears all day."
So I'm not going to cry, I'm just going to separate myself for the situation.
Now ask me if I'm going to be doing for him over the next few days/weeks? Hungry, oh, that's a shame, there's food in the 'fridge ... What was that, you need what? Sorry, but I have to go, bye.
DH has been in a horrible mood for days now, and I understand, he's in alot of pain from his back, but ... being mean and snapping at at every word I say ... I stopped talking this evening as to not blow up at him and use every cuss word in the book.
Like I haven't a bad YEAR already, but I don't take it out on anyone else, especially my husband.
Just a few moments ago I said to him, "why am I making you so angry?"
He replied with the most lame answer about I have been picking on him (it's the other way around there buddy) "okay then I will make a conscious effort not to do that any more, but please, I've been on the verge of tears all day."
So I'm not going to cry, I'm just going to separate myself for the situation.
Now ask me if I'm going to be doing for him over the next few days/weeks? Hungry, oh, that's a shame, there's food in the 'fridge ... What was that, you need what? Sorry, but I have to go, bye.