I do not disagree lulu, but not all of those things are always choices. We live where we live because it is what we can afford. We took the jobs we took because they enable us to afford what we have.
We do not have the option of living somewhere else. We need to live where we are. There were no jobs available to us in areas that would allow us to go down to one car. We did not choose to have two cars. It was a necessity.
I'm glad e don't disagree
But, there are always choices, its just that some of them are/seem truely unpleasant and therefore don't seem like choices. One of my favourite sayings is that there is always a choice.