Maverick2272
Washing Up
That is great! A lot of people don't realize how much that can affect kids. Even though I'm sure James's dad was proud of him and probably showed it other ways (I hope so anyway), James can't recall his dad ever saying, "I'm proud of you." To this day it hurts. Some people don't need to be reassured with words. His dad was probably that type. Some really do need that though.
So, keep on letting your kids know how proud you are of them (through words and actions). They will definitey benefit from it.
Barbara
I wish I could say it comes from wisdom, but it comes from the same experience as James. I cannot recall my dad ever saying he was proud of me, but I can recall the countless criticisms.
I don't want my kids feeling that way when they grow up...