DCG I think you're mistaken about Flay's recipes all being spicy. I presume you mean hot or very strong taste. There may be many of his recipes that are but I'm pretty sure there many that have much milder taste. I can't quote any of his recipes because (1) they are copyrighted, and (2) my Flay cookbook is in storage at present time and I don't even have access within reason.
Yes his recipes are all either Southwestern, or at least in the cookbook I've mentioned. Myself, I probably cook at least as much Asian food as Southwestern food. Both can be hot, both can be spicy, both can be mild. You can cook all kinds of food.
I don't see how Flay can be limiting. Each night you have to cook (or at least eat) something from some kind of cuisine. If you pick Southwestern then you are limiting yourself, just the same as if you pick French, Scandinavian, Basque, Brazilian or New England. That doesn't mean you can't have some different cuisine the next night.
The best reason I can't share any of Flay's recipes is because I've been too intimidated to try them. They're complicated, they require ingredients that demand advance preparation.
I can't share his recipes because they are his, not mine. Buy the cookbook. Even better, get it from your local public library and try some of them before buying. You can find it in the library at 641.5978 F592.
As I researched the above I discovered that Flay has a large array of cookbooks, focusing on grilling, hamburgers, and American regional recipes. Including what I think is his TV show "Throwdown" on Food Network.
And finally, Google "
Bobby Flay recipes." I can't quote his recipes but you can surely read them from his own pen.
Here's a few:
Grilled Chicken Pailard WITH Lemon and Black Pepper and Arugula-Tomato Salad
Chinese Chicken Salad WITH Red Chile Peanut Dressing
Shredded Chicken and Tomatillo Tacos WITH Queso Fresco
Grilled Chicken Wings WITH Spicy Chipotle Hot Sauce and Blue Cheese
Grilled Jerk Chicken WITH Mango Cilantro Salsa
Tandoori Spiced Chicken Breast WITH Grilled Tomato Jam and Herbed Yogurt Sauce
I'll admit I quoted all the above links to support my point that his are always WITH. I suspect that most if not all of the links above are spicy. Maybe a few of them aren't. I went solely by the titles. I bet at least 3/4 of the links I picked at random are delicious!
I am not even going to argue the point that Bobby Flay's recipes are spicy, or too spicy. Everybody must decide for themselves.
But then he is also very into grilling (or so it appears) and for some reason I am not much interested in that.
I don't know what anybody could say to that. If you don't like grilling, then don't. If you aren't into grilling, or like DCG you aren't into Southwestern, or aren't into spicy food, then you will probably not like Bobby Flay recipes. Particularly if you don't like hamburgers. And evidently you don't and won't.
Nothing wrong with that. It takes all kinds to float the boat!