Gosh thats a heart warming story. Glad it worked out. Been down similar paths. Family and nice inlaws...which also tend to be family can make a bunch of difference in the lives of us mortals. When it goes from push to shove thats all we got on a human level. Of all the best pals I ever had cant think of a one which would bother to cross the road to piss on me if I happen to be on fire. Pass the generosity on to subsequent generations is the only way to handle it seems like. It continues a trend started many moons ago.